Opportunities vs. value opportunities The problem is twofold: on the one hand there is the matter of recognizing that the opportunity exists, it's there and understand their times, the window during which you just have to say yes. Sounds complicated, but most of the time the opportunities present themselves clearly.
The real challenge is in the second problem with the opportunities, have the courage to say yes. Of course, one does not go through life saying yes to everything ... Or not all do that. However, in my experience, most can not handle this problem for a variety of reasons that I will not list, but I will say that my favorite (not): yes, but not .
Many opportunities are not free, for example, the opportunity for a better job, but in another country, leaving behind family and friends is not easy. Beads, pros and cons, the old game to select something in life, make decisions, nothing new. I mention this not because it is interesting, but it explains how incredibly stupid it is to say yes, but no, you see the opportunity and clearly say yeah, sure, come all ... but days, months or years later you realize that you did your part, not paid the price for that opportunity.
Do not have the courage.
Another day I will talk about what happens when you realize you said yes, but not . While I think I'll let you and give you a hint: usually fuck others.
